Live Your Dream – Christian Response

So in the midst of searching I found this site Live Your Dream. While most of it just gave me a chuckle I decided I would write about the Pledge to Empower Women they try to promote. Apparently they want me to support women living their dreams. While I could spend days on this pledge … Continue reading Live Your Dream – Christian Response

Sodom and Gomorrah

Xander and Tori, Some days are better than others. Today is not one of those good days. I am sick and all I want is a hug from my step-children. Yet I will not get one of those for at least 3913 days. I was able to make me some hot tea with some sweetener … Continue reading Sodom and Gomorrah

75% To 85% Divorce Rates After Surgery

Bariatric Surgery and Divorce is a dangerous relationship. The rate of divorce after bariatric surgery may be as high as 75-85% in the first two years after surgery. If the bariatric patient was obese prior to the relationship, then the risk of divorce is even higher. The question is why? Why is the divorce for … Continue reading 75% To 85% Divorce Rates After Surgery

Importance Of Telling The Truth

So I am going to be honest the one behavior that gets on my nerves the most is lying. I never been able to handle it. I guess when I was young, it was a lack of caring how or what others thought about me so to me, lying was never a good alternative to … Continue reading Importance Of Telling The Truth

Engaging Our Adult Children

Many of us reading this wait for the day when we can be re-engaged with our children. Yet many of us know that they will be past childhood and now be adults. Self-Care Haven published a blog by Shahida Arabi. I figured as several of us are parents or families that have been #Erased that … Continue reading Engaging Our Adult Children

IVF Treatments – Gaslighting

It is amazing how things just suddenly change. We have now had over a 1000 visitors to the site and have heard our story. I still believe I am providing a record for my step children about their father’s journey and helping those who live in the dark but share in the same issues. If … Continue reading IVF Treatments – Gaslighting

Why We Did It……

So I was asked today on my blog about why Ben and I signed the rights away to his children. It was nice for her to share her question with me. I figured I would make it the subject of today’s blog since at some point either you have experienced this decision or you might … Continue reading Why We Did It……