My Stepchildren Xander and Tori – 3880

So like most Sundays I got dressed put on my head covering and went to church. I started with 845 Matins and Continued on through services till about 1130. I chanted, I smelled the incense, but today I lit a candle praying for my stepchildren. I don’t know why I did today, but I did. … Continue reading My Stepchildren Xander and Tori – 3880

Narcissist, Christian, Atheist – Id, Ego, Superego.

So I am going to delve a little bit into the personality and also discuss a little about Kohut. Kohut studied narcissistic personality disorders and disturbances and related that those he studied with this issue had problems of not getting enough attention from a parent when they were a child. [1] When a child fails … Continue reading Narcissist, Christian, Atheist – Id, Ego, Superego.

Killing Your Child Slowly – Divorce

So the fifth sign of divorce I described during my venting blog this week. But I think it can be merged with the six sign of divorce because to me the fifth sign of divorce is like the sixth sign of divorce so for today and to end the week we will be covering both … Continue reading Killing Your Child Slowly – Divorce

Venting Honest Post – No Longer A Feminist

So just about an update to the website.  I have added a new area for videos. Ben and I take so many pictures and things we figured starting videos would be a great way to show the children we were thinking about them when they come back in 3899 days and ask why we never … Continue reading Venting Honest Post – No Longer A Feminist

136 To 182 Hours vs Cost Of Divorce

So I have decided I would do a short mini-series on the six signals that a divorce is heading your way. While I frown on divorce, sometimes it’s the only way out of a bad situation. In the past couple of weeks we have talked about a Narcissist, HCBPs, and Feminism. I figure this six … Continue reading 136 To 182 Hours vs Cost Of Divorce

Importance Of Telling The Truth

So I am going to be honest the one behavior that gets on my nerves the most is lying. I never been able to handle it. I guess when I was young, it was a lack of caring how or what others thought about me so to me, lying was never a good alternative to … Continue reading Importance Of Telling The Truth

Engaging Our Adult Children

Many of us reading this wait for the day when we can be re-engaged with our children. Yet many of us know that they will be past childhood and now be adults. Self-Care Haven published a blog by Shahida Arabi. I figured as several of us are parents or families that have been #Erased that … Continue reading Engaging Our Adult Children

Feminism Killed The Family – Playing The Victim

Happy New Years Eve!!! Today we cover the last technique used by female narcissist.  I think it is important to finish the year with this final post.  Tonight Ben and I are planning to watching a Rick and Morty marathon and eating pizza and deserts. Now let us finish this series by discussing the final … Continue reading Feminism Killed The Family – Playing The Victim

Domestic Housewife As Abuse – Blame and Shame

Good Morning my goal is to finish the 10 defence mechanisms that narcissistic females use tomorrow so we can begin the New Year with a new series. I should say I have learned more through my writing and reflection but a lot of what has happened remains a mystery. While statistically chaos can be contained … Continue reading Domestic Housewife As Abuse – Blame and Shame