Burying My Five Year Old Self Today

I buried my five year old  self today. That part of me that loved to laugh and make corny jokes. The part of me that was best friend with my stepdaughter. We used to tell each other jokes in the car annoying her brother and dad. I never forget the first joke we told each … Continue reading Burying My Five Year Old Self Today

Guess What? – CHICKEN BUTT!!!!

Dear Tori and Xander, Well this blog brings me to 101. I wanted to say thank you for enduring not being able to see your father and I.  We understand it is both difficult and rough on the two of you. Nothing much to tell really about what is going on. I been busy with … Continue reading Guess What? – CHICKEN BUTT!!!!

Have A Great Reward In The End – Parental Alienation

So what is it like being the Alienated Stepparent? It is not easy. You get up you go to work and continue to wonder if my step-children will ever come back and get our side of the story. I get frustrated in my house seeing the children’s things and me not having enough will power … Continue reading Have A Great Reward In The End – Parental Alienation

Dairy Queen Afterwards – Letter to Tori and Xander

Dear Tori and Xander, Well it is the first workday of the government shutdown. I am not worried too much about it. God always provides. Monday I am starting my class for my first Clinical Pastoral Education credit to get my associates accreditation for my CPSP.  My associates will be in Pastoral Counseling or I … Continue reading Dairy Queen Afterwards – Letter to Tori and Xander

One Flesh, One Body – Emotional Disengagement

Today we will be talking about the second signal that you are heading for a divorce.  Like yesterday I will discuss the issue and then a way to head it off. It is by heading it off that can keep your family intact. To often the hardest time in a man’s life is the two … Continue reading One Flesh, One Body – Emotional Disengagement

Live Like A Dog

Good Morning Tori and Xander, I know it has been a while since I have written but to be honest what is there to say? Nothing really has changed. We still haven’t heard from you or seen you now for 443 days.  That is 10,632 hours or 637,920 minutes or 38,275,200 seconds.  I been trying … Continue reading Live Like A Dog

Remember To Be Nice

Dear Tori and Xander, I hope you are staying warm today. I wanted to let you know that your dad and I had a snowball fight with one another in the snow that fell at our house.  Athena and Maxwell did not like the snow and stayed inside where it was warm. We finally turned … Continue reading Remember To Be Nice

Thank You For Calling Me Fat

Good Morning, Welcome to Wednesday. A cold front has blown into my area and so it is now 56 degrees outside. I am going to start my new series on Parental Alienation next week. I believe it is the hardest thing a parent will ever go through particularly a Christian parent. Because it does not … Continue reading Thank You For Calling Me Fat