My Stepchildren Xander and Tori – 3880

So like most Sundays I got dressed put on my head covering and went to church. I started with 845 Matins and Continued on through services till about 1130. I chanted, I smelled the incense, but today I lit a candle praying for my stepchildren. I don’t know why I did today, but I did. … Continue reading My Stepchildren Xander and Tori – 3880

IT

I think the hardest part about being a stepmom was the lack of control I had over anything in my house. I always felt like IT was there. It wasn’t the fact that IT was it just felt like it. Every decision had to be thought out and processed. War games is what I call … Continue reading IT

Guess What? – CHICKEN BUTT!!!!

Dear Tori and Xander, Well this blog brings me to 101. I wanted to say thank you for enduring not being able to see your father and I.  We understand it is both difficult and rough on the two of you. Nothing much to tell really about what is going on. I been busy with … Continue reading Guess What? – CHICKEN BUTT!!!!

Killing Your Child Slowly – Divorce

So the fifth sign of divorce I described during my venting blog this week. But I think it can be merged with the six sign of divorce because to me the fifth sign of divorce is like the sixth sign of divorce so for today and to end the week we will be covering both … Continue reading Killing Your Child Slowly – Divorce

Venting Honest Post – No Longer A Feminist

So just about an update to the website.  I have added a new area for videos. Ben and I take so many pictures and things we figured starting videos would be a great way to show the children we were thinking about them when they come back in 3899 days and ask why we never … Continue reading Venting Honest Post – No Longer A Feminist

I Fell Into A Burning Ring Of Fire

Now let us pick back up from where we were…the third sign a divorce. These signs are like building a lasagna layer by layer. They build upon one another and the previous step was a result of the step before that, so on and so forth. Disaffection When we emotional disengage we often lose the … Continue reading I Fell Into A Burning Ring Of Fire

Dairy Queen Afterwards – Letter to Tori and Xander

Dear Tori and Xander, Well it is the first workday of the government shutdown. I am not worried too much about it. God always provides. Monday I am starting my class for my first Clinical Pastoral Education credit to get my associates accreditation for my CPSP.  My associates will be in Pastoral Counseling or I … Continue reading Dairy Queen Afterwards – Letter to Tori and Xander

One Flesh, One Body – Emotional Disengagement

Today we will be talking about the second signal that you are heading for a divorce.  Like yesterday I will discuss the issue and then a way to head it off. It is by heading it off that can keep your family intact. To often the hardest time in a man’s life is the two … Continue reading One Flesh, One Body – Emotional Disengagement

136 To 182 Hours vs Cost Of Divorce

So I have decided I would do a short mini-series on the six signals that a divorce is heading your way. While I frown on divorce, sometimes it’s the only way out of a bad situation. In the past couple of weeks we have talked about a Narcissist, HCBPs, and Feminism. I figure this six … Continue reading 136 To 182 Hours vs Cost Of Divorce

Live Your Dream – Christian Response

So in the midst of searching I found this site Live Your Dream. While most of it just gave me a chuckle I decided I would write about the Pledge to Empower Women they try to promote. Apparently they want me to support women living their dreams. While I could spend days on this pledge … Continue reading Live Your Dream – Christian Response