A Soft Patriarchy and Accountability

Good Afternoon, So what makes a successful marriage?  We have seen often our grandparents stay together for over 30 + years yet we are just happy if we get to the five year mark. Why is it we cannot seem to get it together?  As step-moms we live in the world with another women even … Continue reading A Soft Patriarchy and Accountability

High Conflict Birth Parent (HCBP) Results of Divorce On Our Children

For those having to deal with a High Conflict Birth Parent (HCBP), Have you wondered if you are dealing with a HCBP? If you have to ask this question then I would venture to say then yes you are engaging with one. We need to look at the impact of a HCBP on those they … Continue reading High Conflict Birth Parent (HCBP) Results of Divorce On Our Children

For The 17.5%

Good Morning Step parents, Parents, and Family, Today I am going to talk about the one out of six women who in 2014 did not receive custody of their children. The 17.5 percent of mothers who lost primary custody to the children’s father.[1] Most of these fathers are and suffer from Narcissistic personality disorder. They … Continue reading For The 17.5%

Battle Scars On Our Children

Good Morning Grieving Stepparents and Parents, Thank goodness it is Monday again.  Back to a normal work week. Today I am going to talk about the coping aspects children exhibit when they go through a high conflict divorce or have to deal with a HCBP. I think it is important since there is a rise … Continue reading Battle Scars On Our Children

Will You Help Me?

Good Morning Grieving Parents and StepMoms, I know the holidays can be tough. You have become the outcast to your current family and in a lot of ways you do not even want to celebrate with yourself. Welcome to year two of not being invited anywhere or having anyone to talk too. Last year with … Continue reading Will You Help Me?

Little Peanut

Today is just one of those days. I hate Facebook watching people complain about HCBP but still seeing their step kids.  I often just want scream at the phone and say hey at least you get to see your kids. Then I cry for the parents who have to go to court again and again … Continue reading Little Peanut

Caffeine and Maggots a Deadly Combination

So over the past couple of days I have discussed about a narcissist and about Hypergamy. Today we relate them to the cycle of Maggots and the impact of caffeine on their metamorphosis. If you’re a feminist this is going to upset you and I pray for your forgiveness but the numbers do not lie. … Continue reading Caffeine and Maggots a Deadly Combination