My Stepchildren Xander and Tori – 3880

So like most Sundays I got dressed put on my head covering and went to church. I started with 845 Matins and Continued on through services till about 1130. I chanted, I smelled the incense, but today I lit a candle praying for my stepchildren. I don’t know why I did today, but I did. … Continue reading My Stepchildren Xander and Tori – 3880

IT

I think the hardest part about being a stepmom was the lack of control I had over anything in my house. I always felt like IT was there. It wasn’t the fact that IT was it just felt like it. Every decision had to be thought out and processed. War games is what I call … Continue reading IT

Have A Great Reward In The End – Parental Alienation

So what is it like being the Alienated Stepparent? It is not easy. You get up you go to work and continue to wonder if my step-children will ever come back and get our side of the story. I get frustrated in my house seeing the children’s things and me not having enough will power … Continue reading Have A Great Reward In The End – Parental Alienation

Killing Your Child Slowly – Divorce

So the fifth sign of divorce I described during my venting blog this week. But I think it can be merged with the six sign of divorce because to me the fifth sign of divorce is like the sixth sign of divorce so for today and to end the week we will be covering both … Continue reading Killing Your Child Slowly – Divorce

Venting Honest Post – No Longer A Feminist

So just about an update to the website.  I have added a new area for videos. Ben and I take so many pictures and things we figured starting videos would be a great way to show the children we were thinking about them when they come back in 3899 days and ask why we never … Continue reading Venting Honest Post – No Longer A Feminist

136 To 182 Hours vs Cost Of Divorce

So I have decided I would do a short mini-series on the six signals that a divorce is heading your way. While I frown on divorce, sometimes it’s the only way out of a bad situation. In the past couple of weeks we have talked about a Narcissist, HCBPs, and Feminism. I figure this six … Continue reading 136 To 182 Hours vs Cost Of Divorce

Eugenics, Girl Scouts and the Unborn.

Every morning is hard. Seeing the numerous groups I belong too with posts about HCBPs and Fathers who had an issue during transitions. And then I come across meme’s like this…. It makes you stop and think. As a crisis theologian it brings the point home. What is the unborn? If you search the KJV … Continue reading Eugenics, Girl Scouts and the Unborn.

Sodom and Gomorrah

Xander and Tori, Some days are better than others. Today is not one of those good days. I am sick and all I want is a hug from my step-children. Yet I will not get one of those for at least 3913 days. I was able to make me some hot tea with some sweetener … Continue reading Sodom and Gomorrah

Importance Of Telling The Truth

So I am going to be honest the one behavior that gets on my nerves the most is lying. I never been able to handle it. I guess when I was young, it was a lack of caring how or what others thought about me so to me, lying was never a good alternative to … Continue reading Importance Of Telling The Truth

Engaging Our Adult Children

Many of us reading this wait for the day when we can be re-engaged with our children. Yet many of us know that they will be past childhood and now be adults. Self-Care Haven published a blog by Shahida Arabi. I figured as several of us are parents or families that have been #Erased that … Continue reading Engaging Our Adult Children