My Stepchildren Xander and Tori – 3880

So like most Sundays I got dressed put on my head covering and went to church. I started with 845 Matins and Continued on through services till about 1130. I chanted, I smelled the incense, but today I lit a candle praying for my stepchildren. I don’t know why I did today, but I did. … Continue reading My Stepchildren Xander and Tori – 3880

IT

I think the hardest part about being a stepmom was the lack of control I had over anything in my house. I always felt like IT was there. It wasn’t the fact that IT was it just felt like it. Every decision had to be thought out and processed. War games is what I call … Continue reading IT

Sodom and Gomorrah

Xander and Tori, Some days are better than others. Today is not one of those good days. I am sick and all I want is a hug from my step-children. Yet I will not get one of those for at least 3913 days. I was able to make me some hot tea with some sweetener … Continue reading Sodom and Gomorrah

Cuck To His Own Wife – Smear Campaign

I uploaded a new podcast today. Please check it out.  If there is a topic you would like me to cover please reach out to me via the contact tab of the website. Today we are going to be talking about probably the second most painful defense tactic used by HCBM. This is called the … Continue reading Cuck To His Own Wife – Smear Campaign

Dear Santa,

Dear Santa, In 2016 17.2 million children lived only with their mothers. These 17.2 million children will not get to see their Dad this Christmas. My two step-children will be two of those 17.2 children. This will be our second Christmas without our children. A second Christmas with no holiday meal, Christmas presents, or Midnight … Continue reading Dear Santa,

High Conflict Birth Parent (HCBP) Results of Divorce On Our Children

For those having to deal with a High Conflict Birth Parent (HCBP), Have you wondered if you are dealing with a HCBP? If you have to ask this question then I would venture to say then yes you are engaging with one. We need to look at the impact of a HCBP on those they … Continue reading High Conflict Birth Parent (HCBP) Results of Divorce On Our Children

Five Little Ducks

Good Morning Tori and Xander, I hope this letter finds you well. Did you have a good day back from vacation at school?  Did you have a good Thanksgiving? I found pictures of our last thanksgiving together. It made me smile. I also found a song that made me think of the two of you … Continue reading Five Little Ducks

Chocolate Doughnuts, Chilli Pie, and Chicken Alfredo

Good Morning Xander and Tori, Happy Turkey Day!!! I hope you are going to have a great day and enjoy the feast that is prepared for you.  Today we started the day with chocolate doughnuts and chocolate milks. Today we are going to be cooking chilli pie and chicken alfredo. Tomorrow after we go to … Continue reading Chocolate Doughnuts, Chilli Pie, and Chicken Alfredo

Fifth Commandment

Tori and Xander, Good morning sweeties. I hope your enjoying your time off from school. What are you planning on doing for Thanksgiving?  Your dad and I are going to be having pot-roast I think. HEB had a family meal that looked good plus it is customized in size for just two people.  Your dad … Continue reading Fifth Commandment

Yet She Considered Me To Be A Bad Mother

Good Morning, I love you. I miss you. Your grandmother and grandfather on my first time meeting them made me promise to take care of their son. I promised them I would take care of your Dad. I wonder often when they ate dinner with your mom and step-dad if they asked him to take … Continue reading Yet She Considered Me To Be A Bad Mother