IT

I think the hardest part about being a stepmom was the lack of control I had over anything in my house. I always felt like IT was there. It wasn’t the fact that IT was it just felt like it. Every decision had to be thought out and processed. War games is what I call … Continue reading IT

Have A Great Reward In The End – Parental Alienation

So what is it like being the Alienated Stepparent? It is not easy. You get up you go to work and continue to wonder if my step-children will ever come back and get our side of the story. I get frustrated in my house seeing the children’s things and me not having enough will power … Continue reading Have A Great Reward In The End – Parental Alienation

Killing Your Child Slowly – Divorce

So the fifth sign of divorce I described during my venting blog this week. But I think it can be merged with the six sign of divorce because to me the fifth sign of divorce is like the sixth sign of divorce so for today and to end the week we will be covering both … Continue reading Killing Your Child Slowly – Divorce

I Fell Into A Burning Ring Of Fire

Now let us pick back up from where we were…the third sign a divorce. These signs are like building a lasagna layer by layer. They build upon one another and the previous step was a result of the step before that, so on and so forth. Disaffection When we emotional disengage we often lose the … Continue reading I Fell Into A Burning Ring Of Fire

Dairy Queen Afterwards – Letter to Tori and Xander

Dear Tori and Xander, Well it is the first workday of the government shutdown. I am not worried too much about it. God always provides. Monday I am starting my class for my first Clinical Pastoral Education credit to get my associates accreditation for my CPSP.  My associates will be in Pastoral Counseling or I … Continue reading Dairy Queen Afterwards – Letter to Tori and Xander

Live Your Dream – Christian Response

So in the midst of searching I found this site Live Your Dream. While most of it just gave me a chuckle I decided I would write about the Pledge to Empower Women they try to promote. Apparently they want me to support women living their dreams. While I could spend days on this pledge … Continue reading Live Your Dream – Christian Response

Sodom and Gomorrah

Xander and Tori, Some days are better than others. Today is not one of those good days. I am sick and all I want is a hug from my step-children. Yet I will not get one of those for at least 3913 days. I was able to make me some hot tea with some sweetener … Continue reading Sodom and Gomorrah

75% To 85% Divorce Rates After Surgery

Bariatric Surgery and Divorce is a dangerous relationship. The rate of divorce after bariatric surgery may be as high as 75-85% in the first two years after surgery. If the bariatric patient was obese prior to the relationship, then the risk of divorce is even higher. The question is why? Why is the divorce for … Continue reading 75% To 85% Divorce Rates After Surgery

Importance Of Telling The Truth

So I am going to be honest the one behavior that gets on my nerves the most is lying. I never been able to handle it. I guess when I was young, it was a lack of caring how or what others thought about me so to me, lying was never a good alternative to … Continue reading Importance Of Telling The Truth