My Little Pony – Finding Joy

You know it is funny.  I grew up watching My Little Pony. It was the one thing I got and enjoyed doing with my step-children. I know often sit at work listening to My Little Pony songs.  It reminds us even as adults the importance of being a good friend to one another and we … Continue reading My Little Pony – Finding Joy

How Others Will Judge Us Now And In The Future

Xander and Tori, It’s been 83 weeks and 3 days since we signed the paperwork to give you want you and your mom wanted. Your dad and I have been busy.  We decided to join a local gym here in town. I go after work every day except for Mondays and Thursdays because of other … Continue reading How Others Will Judge Us Now And In The Future

Loss Of A Daughter

Hello, Ok so the purpose of this blog today is to talk about the unnatural grief cycle some women take when they experience the loss of a child. The loss of a child is horrible. It not only impacts the mother but the father is well. Women will often take responsibility for the loss of … Continue reading Loss Of A Daughter

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Dear Tori and Xander, Sorry it has been so long since I have written.  I wanted to let you know I put your Dad’s good bye video to you guys up on the videos web page because with Youtube being kinda crazy I figured it would at least be safe up here for you to … Continue reading 3817

24 Million Children And 64 Million Fathers – Best Interest – No One Listened

There is an estimated 64 million fathers across the nation. Parent-child relationships and child well being show that father love is an important factor in predicting the social, emotional, and cognitive development and functioning of children and young adults. Yet 24 million children live without their biological father in their lives. What the family court calls … Continue reading 24 Million Children And 64 Million Fathers – Best Interest – No One Listened

Crappy People – Talk To The Hand

Well we can now hope the crazy madness on the roads will come to an end considering Spring Break is now over. Between almost getting T-Boned by a bus on Friday and then being T-Boned from another car while making a turn under the highway bridge. I am glad that Spring Break is finally over. … Continue reading Crappy People – Talk To The Hand

Bitter Sweet Accomplishments

That is how I would describe the weekend. After 3.5 years of always having piles of laundry to do I was able to finally get it all completed and either donated to Good Will or hung up. I had hoped to find in my last load my final sock of Tori’s but at last I … Continue reading Bitter Sweet Accomplishments

I Have To Wonder If God Is Selfish

Well tonight is different it’s a late night at the office working on documentation and getting things together for a major migration. The stupid defibrillator machine is beeping non-stop all day because it needs batteries. But we must continue to work on the worksheets in order to make milestones. Anyway where do we begin? That’s … Continue reading I Have To Wonder If God Is Selfish

I Curse God For Putting Me Here – Church And Family

Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner. Amen. Today I want to talk about what constitutes a family.  I think in Lent its important to discuss this because the disciples were Christ family and they denied him and betrayed him. Yesterday I posted of my current family, Ben making me laugh. … Continue reading I Curse God For Putting Me Here – Church And Family

Closet Lesbians – Rape Survivor

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner. Amen. This piece is supposed to make your laugh if you come from a conservative mindset. My apologies to my readers this week. It has been a long week and I just have not had the time to actually sit down and get … Continue reading Closet Lesbians – Rape Survivor