So today I was reading an article on the Guardian about parents pushing for special needs diagnosis for their children so their children can gain a competitive edge in statewide testing.  It also is being used as an excuse for the lack of parenting that a parent does. The rude behavior in a child, the … Continue reading GROW UP and be a PARENT

Step-Moms and Battle Buddies

For the Stepmoms who fight a battle on two fronts when their spouse has lost their children. A Letter to Your Spouse, As I sit here reading about the rise in male suicide to the shame, isolation, hurt, embarrassment, anxiety, and confusion I cannot help and think of you.[1] The trials that you experience and … Continue reading Step-Moms and Battle Buddies

For The 17.5%

Good Morning Step parents, Parents, and Family, Today I am going to talk about the one out of six women who in 2014 did not receive custody of their children. The 17.5 percent of mothers who lost primary custody to the children’s father.[1] Most of these fathers are and suffer from Narcissistic personality disorder. They … Continue reading For The 17.5%

Disney Fails Us

Good Morning Step-parents and Parents, Welcome to the middle of the week.  Today is the one year anniversary of us finally setting the child support office straight about us having to sign our rights away. May God’s will be done. I have published my new podcasts and it is now available on Itunes. You can … Continue reading Disney Fails Us

Remain Strong and Be Like Joseph

Good Morning Grieving Step-Parents and Parents, I am starting to realize that there is more pain in the day after a holiday than the actual holiday itself. The day after the holiday it is hard going to social media and watch family photos celebrating thanksgiving. This year we made lots of progress getting our house … Continue reading Remain Strong and Be Like Joseph

Will You Help Me?

Good Morning Grieving Parents and StepMoms, I know the holidays can be tough. You have become the outcast to your current family and in a lot of ways you do not even want to celebrate with yourself. Welcome to year two of not being invited anywhere or having anyone to talk too. Last year with … Continue reading Will You Help Me?

GonasyphaherpalAIDS And Our Christian Response to Hypergamy.

Good morning Step Parents and Grieving Parent, Yesterday we defined and discussed a narcissist and a high conflict birth parent.  Now to day we are going to discus hypergamy also known is monkey branching. Hypergamy downward spiral began with the women's sexual revolution in the 1960s and the birth of second wave feminism which has … Continue reading GonasyphaherpalAIDS And Our Christian Response to Hypergamy.