Good morning Step Parents and Grieving Parent,
Yesterday we defined and discussed a narcissist and a high conflict birth parent. Now to day we are going to discus hypergamy also known is monkey branching. Hypergamy downward spiral began with the women’s sexual revolution in the 1960s and the birth of second wave feminism which has changed our culture from being in solid monogamous relationships with male lead households to the toxic waste land we now have before us. This includes blended families, fatherlessness, and single moms trying to raise children. When I was a child we were always told that the grass on the other side of the fence is not always greener. Hypergamy is those women who have crossed over onto a new tree searching for better opportunities, status, wealth and well sex. This resulted in men becoming more aggressive and violent with one another to ensure they could maintain or attract another female. Statistics have shown that in the U.S. 40% – 53% percent of first marriages, 76% of second, 87% of third, and 93% of fourth marriages end in divorce. So in Texas if you get divorce everything is split in half. Therefor when you marry again for your second time half of your money and assets are already gone. If you divorce again then you lose another quarter of your assets. Leaving you with only a quarter of the wealth you entered into the first relationship with. With every jump to a new branch a women takes a risk at losing more of her assets and therefore needs to ensure she can find a man that can fill in the missing assets that were removed from her in the initial divorce.
Women engaging in hypergamy are attracted to the top 10% of ambitious men. Hypergamy is a biological genetic makeup of all women to find the best possible DNA that she can find to ensure she can become pregnant. This means that the top 10% of men get about 90% of all the women. And we wonder why we have a rise in gonasyphaherpalAIDS running rampant in women today. According the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention women are more likely to become infected with a STD than men for a number of reasons. The need to monkey branch to another man leads to devastating results to women who have had children. With the loss of fathers in the household, other men are forced to raise children who are not even theirs.
Hypergamy works if you are 30 and younger. This is because of the sexual market value of a women. By the age of 27 years old women have begun to decline in being able to sexually arouse a man. With growing number of females in the population the competition gets harder every year for older women to monkey branch to a man who is in the top 10%. This results in them in performing the opposite of hypergamy which is hypogamy. Women marry down to a lower class or social status because of their desire of seeking the greener grass. Women have no options but to go down because they have been reduced in their sexual market value. As men become more familiar with the MIGTOW movement women have a smaller 10% to choose from which forces women to either become a spinster and economically poor putting a drain on government aid or lash out at everyone that has put her there and make everyone in her life miserable.
Therefore step-parents and grieving parents what are we called upon to do? We pray. We pray for our marriages. We pray for our ex partners. We pray for their new spouses. Most importantly we pray for our children. While we know that the odds are not in the HCBPs favor to survive their marriage after you it does not mean you should not pray for their souls. There is only one reason for divorce and that is adultery. Adultery is voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not his or her spouse. Adultery though in regards to Gods word can include an addiction to porn, alcohol to perform sexual obligations, or anything that a partner dedicates themselves to that is not part of the union of a man and women. According to Jesus, God hates divorce and therefore we must pray against it. Hypergamy is a women’s downward spiral to damnation. As a society we must rebuke Satan and the sin of NO FAULT Divorce. The sins we commit in this life go on for 40 generations. (Exodus 34:6–7) Is that something we want to bestow upon your children and grandchildren?
ALMIGHTY God, our heavenly Father, who settest the solitary in families; We commend to thy continual care the homes in which thy people dwell. Put far from them, we beseech thee, every root of bitterness, the desire of vain-glory, and the pride of life. Fill them with faith, virtue, knowledge, temperance, patience, godliness. Knit together in constant affection those who, in holy wedlock, have been made one flesh; turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to the fathers; and so enkindle fervent charity among us all, that we be evermore kindly affectioned with brotherly love; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.